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[Deep Conversations] That Made Me a Stronger Leader!
My uncle Monty was a brilliant businessman—and a bold atheist. I’m a Christian. And yet, we had some of the deepest, most honest conversations I’ve ever had. He challenged me. I challenged him. We respected each other deeply. At his funeral, I shared one of those...
67% of Executives Are Trapped (Are You?)
A scientist placed caterpillars on the rim of a pot filled with their favorite plants.Around and around they went, following each other in an endless circle…Until they all starved to death.Just inches away from abundance... 📊 Alarming reality check: 67% of C-suite...
Why You’re Stuck—And How to Break Through
Recently, I traded pounding the pavement for gliding through an Olympic-sized pool. The past few years I've been swimming hard to hit my targets. ✅ Years of effort.✅ Plateaued four months ago.✅ I gave it my all... mistaking effort for effectiveness Then today,...
Most Leaders Think They Know—They Don’t!
Ask any leader if they're self-aware, and they'll say yes. But if their team was polled anonymously… Most leaders believe they see themselves clearly. The truth? The best leaders reflect on their actions and embrace honest feedback to grow. SELF-AWARENESS is the most...
What’s Your Unique Edge?
Four words that killed an executive's shot at a dream opportunity... My client—let's call him Eric—froze.Then talked too much.The executive team exchanged glances. Interview over!! He called me the next day."I've led teams of hundreds.""I've managed budgets of...
The Big Bully Gambling CEO Exposed!
Big gold chain. Huge gold rings. Biggest gold watch you’ve ever seen. Lots of polyester. This CEO barked orders, set impossible quotas, and bullied his team into submission. - The numbers? Rigged.- The leadership? Fear-based.- The employees? Worthless in his eyes. One...
Which toxic CEO have you survived?
75% of executives I've worked with in the last few months are dealing with dysfunctional CEOs. It's a familiar pattern: - Teams in chaos- Anxiety Rising- Top talent fleeing- Careers derailed Sound familiar? After working with hundreds of executives, I've identified...
Are You Talking Your Way Out of Success?
The CEO's hand went up. Third time stopping the presentation. "We've heard enough," he said, looking around the boardroom. "I can't believe I kept talking... this is where I really need your help," my client confided later. This VP—let's call her Erica—had it all:...
Game-Changer That Will Stun You…
I stared at my latest Club trip award. Another luxury resort. Another symbol of "making it." Another golden handcuff. Behind closed doors? I was too “successful” to quit—but too unfulfilled to stay. Trapped by my own achievements... Senior executive Highly compensated...
The ‘Dream Job’ That Almost Destroyed My Career
I sat in the CEO's office—the entire top floor of a skyscraper housing thousands of employees. 'This is the moment,' I thought, my heart racing. 'One hour that will define everything.' Even though all my connections had warned me that nobody ever gets in front of the...
The “Top Performer” Trap: The Plot Thickens…
The 'Marcus' story struck a nerve. But what happened next revealed something even darker... Picture this: A tech company's award-winning "star partners"? Overcharging clients Bullying customers Ghosting after the sale Destroying the company's reputation And they...
The Day We Got Rid of America’s #1 Salesperson
I stared at his sales numbers. #1 out of thousands of salespeople in the entire country. 'You can't even think about touching him,' our president warned. 'He's too valuable.' But I knew 'Marcus's' secret. While he dazzled leadership with record-breaking deals, he was...
The Silent Cost of Success Nobody Talks About
Meet Dave (not his real name)—the DEFINITION of executive achievement: Elite airline status Platinum status at every luxury hotel chain Mid-six-figure income Reality check: 67% of top executives report being trapped in "golden handcuffs" while their real lives slip...
The Success Trap: When “Making It” Feels Like Missing Out
You've mastered the corporate game.But every month, that knot in your stomach grows tighter.Another year of running someone else's race...Another year of missing life's precious moments...Another year of wondering "what if?" Picture this: Executive suite. Mid-six...
You’re Too Successful to Be This Stuck
It’s easy to stay busy and believe you’re secure.It’s hard to admit your career might be on autopilot. Most successful leaders tell themselves: “I’ve worked hard to get here. I’ll focus on long-term plans later.” “Now isn’t the time to take risks.” “I’m too...
The Hidden Career Pivot That Changed Everything
Remember Mark? I've shared his journey from corporate peak to professional pivot. But there's a chapter I haven't told you about... Statistic check: 89% of executives focus on climbing the ladder they can see. Mark discovered there was no higher level on his ladder -...
Rachel’s Story: The Breakthrough Nobody Saw Coming
Remember Rachel? I told you about her stunning fall: Elite engineering career -> Gone Fortune 500 leadership role -> Gone Perfect resume power -> Gone But what happened next changed everything... Six months into her job search, Rachel hit a breaking point....
Mark’s Story: The Aftermath Nobody Expected
Remember Mark? I told you about his stunning fall: Multi-multi six figure salary -> Gone Corner office -> Gone Executive title -> Gone But what happened next was even more shocking... Six months after his fall, Mark hit rock bottom. His savings...
The Career Collapse Nobody Sees Until It’s Too Late
I've watched this story unfold too many times in 2024... Let's call her Rachel—she was the DEFINITION of elite achievement: Elite engineering school prodigy Masters from a prestigious institution Tech leader at multiple Fortune 500 giants The kind of career that had...
When Professionals “Die” Before They’re Buried
Benjamin Franklin hit a profound truth: Most people "die" at 25 and aren't buried until 75. In my years of coaching high-performing leaders, I've witnessed a pattern that's both heartbreaking and preventable... Brilliant professionals who: -> Stop dreaming ->...
The Silent Career Implosion Nobody Sees Coming
In 2019, my colleague—let's call him Mark—was the DEFINITION of corporate success: Multi-multi-six-figure salary Corner office with a view A title that made other executives envious Statistic check: 52% of mid-career professionals are just ONE disruption away from...
Career Alert: The Invisible Threat Most Professionals Ignore
Did you know that 47% of professionals over 45 fear becoming professionally irrelevant in the next 5 years? Early in my career, I led teams decades older than me by constantly reinventing myself. I've since watched countless careers stall because they weren't...
HAS THE PACE OF LIFE STOLEN YOUR GRATITUDE?
Life moves fast—too fast. Between the endless to-do lists and daily demands, it’s easy to let gratitude slip away. Instead, stress takes over, and we stop noticing the simple joys that give life its meaning. But here’s the thing: gratitude isn’t just nice to have—it’s...
COULD THE WHITE-COLLAR RECESSION AFFECT YOUR FUTURE?
The LinkedIn news article White-Collar Recession Hits Tech reveals a harsh truth: layoffs are widespread, with hiring down over 20% since 2018. We’re also hearing more about the impact of AI on job reductions and how technology advancements are changing the employment...
WHERE IS YOUR CAREER TAKING YOU?
This month, I had a session with a highly successful senior executive leader. They’re in a prestigious role, but they know it’s not forever. In today’s world—where few jobs are truly secure, especially at higher levels—they’re reflecting on what’s next. We explored...
MYTHS ABOUT LEADERSHIP THAT HOLD US BACK
LEADERS MUST HAVE ALL THE ANSWERS REALITY: Great leaders listen to their teams and empower them to contribute ideas. Will Guidara, author of Unreasonable Hospitality, built his success by listening deeply to his employees, valuing their insights, and fostering a...
COULD UNPLUGGING BE THE SECRET TO YOUR BREAKTHROUGH?
In my prior post DO YOU NEED A SABBATICAL? from weeks ago, I shared about a CEO client of mine considering a multi-week sabbatical. After weeks of reflection, he’s decided that fully unplugging is essential for his future success. This CEO is making a very bold...
AI WHIPLASH?
Are you feeling pulled in too many directions with all the new AI tech? I recently spoke with Dan Lucarini, an AI industry analyst, about the whiplash effect leaders face from rapid AI advancements. Whether you’re just starting with AI basics or using advanced agents,...
WORKPLACE SKILLS WILL SHIFT BY 70% IN 5 YEARS. ARE YOU ADAPTING?
A recent LinkedIn global survey of over 20,000 professionals revealed that the majority (64%) are feeling overwhelmed by the pace of change in today’s workplace. In fact, skills needed at work are expected to change by up to 70% over the next five years. The top...
Is Your Time Managing You?
Here’s how I turned it around and freed up many hours every week. Do you feel like your schedule is jam-packed, yet at the end of the day, you wonder, “WHERE DID ALL THE TIME GO?” You’re not alone—this is a common struggle for many of my clients and business leaders I...
REAL STRATEGIES TO PREPARE YOUR TEAM FOR AI
Last week, I asked, Are you ready to compete with AI? With powerful AI agents emerging—capable of acting independently and without human oversight—leaders must prepare. But here’s the good news: some AI agents and tools are already available to give you an edge. Let’s...
ARE YOU READY TO COMPETE WITH AI?
I read AI industry expert Dan Lucarini's post about the evolving role of AI in business and leadership. That got me thinking about a recent podcast I heard with Ben Angel, who had some important insights on the future of AI. With ChatGPT-5 expected to launch as early...
I CAN, BUT SHOULD I?
EMPOWERING VS. DOING In recent talks with my CEO clients, we’ve discussed the urge to take over tasks yourself—but should you? True leadership is about empowering others. Before jumping in, ask yourself: SHOULD I REALLY BE DOING THIS, or would it be better to guide...
LEADING WITH FAITH AND COURAGE
𝗙𝗔𝗜𝗧𝗛 𝗜𝗦 𝗔𝗕𝗢𝗨𝗧 𝗔𝗖𝗧𝗜𝗢𝗡 Faith isn’t just about believing—it’s about taking courageous steps, even when the future is unclear. As the Bible in 2 Corinthians 5:7 says, “For we walk by faith, not by sight.” 𝗟𝗘𝗔𝗗𝗘𝗥𝗦𝗛𝗜𝗣 𝗠𝗘𝗔𝗡𝗦 𝗕𝗢𝗟𝗗𝗟𝗬 𝗙𝗔𝗖𝗜𝗡𝗚 𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗨𝗡𝗞𝗡𝗢𝗪𝗡 Leaders aren’t called...
WHY SERVANT LEADERSHIP MATTERS
Recently, I had a conversation with a CEO client who expressed concern about involving the whole team in providing input. His intentions were good—he wanted to keep them focused on their primary responsibilities. But the flipside to that is when you don’t involve your...
RECHARGE YOUR WHY TO REIGNITE YOUR BUSINESS
At Elite CEO Advisors, I help leaders like you cut through the noise and REFOCUS ON YOUR WHY—the deeper purpose behind what you do. It’s easy to get caught up in the what and how, but to truly REIGNITE your passion, you need to reconnect with the driving force that...
DO YOU NEED A SABBATICAL?
I had a unique conversation with one of my CEO clients last week that was different than I was expecting. He’s had an incredibly busy year—launching new products, writing books, and speaking on multiple stages. Now, with a window of opportunity near Christmas, he...
INSPIRATION OVER PERSPIRATION
In leadership, hard work is essential, but 𝗜𝗡𝗦𝗣𝗜𝗥𝗔𝗧𝗜𝗢𝗡 is the real game-changer. It transforms effort into extraordinary results. Visionary leaders don’t just grind—they lead with 𝗣𝗨𝗥𝗣𝗢𝗦𝗘, 𝗖𝗟𝗔𝗥𝗜𝗧𝗬, and 𝗜𝗡𝗦𝗣𝗜𝗥𝗔𝗧𝗜𝗢𝗡 that drives teams to excel. To build an 𝗜𝗡𝗖𝗥𝗘𝗗𝗜𝗕𝗟𝗘...
Action creates clarity
In my last post, I talked about the power of FAITH and how it pushes us forward even when we can’t see the whole staircase. As Mitch Matthews commented, “Faith is often about 𝗧𝗔𝗞𝗜𝗡𝗚 𝗔𝗖𝗧𝗜𝗢𝗡… not just sitting and waiting for things to happen!” A great reminder that...
KEEP PUSHING FORWARD WITH FAITH
In my last post, we talked about the importance of never giving up. Today, I want to build on that with something deeper: FAITH.There’s a Bible verse that says: “Faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not yet seen” (Hebrews 11:1). And...
NEVER GIVE UP
So… many of you know that I’m a CEO Coach. I love working with visionary leaders who push boundaries and transform organizations. BUT… when you’re taking risks, setbacks are inevitable. (Ever been there?) YOU COULD BE ONE FAILURE AWAY FROM VICTORY. I recently watched...
3 PROVEN STEPS TO REFOCUS AND ACHIEVE YOUR GOALS
In my recent post titled Cutting Through the Distractions, you shared valuable insights about revisiting past strategies and starting new habits. Jeff Class highlighted the power of writing down goals, while AMBERLY LAGO shared how locking herself away helped her cut...
REKINDLE THE SPARK: HOW PASSION FUELS SUCCESS!
Many leaders start with a deep sense of purpose, but over time, it’s easy to get lost in the daily grind. At Elite CEO Advisors, we help leaders RISE ABOVE distractions and REIGNITE their passion. 3 STRATEGIES TO REIGNITE YOUR PASSION 1. RECONNECT WITH YOUR ‘WHY’...
TURN BIG GOALS INTO REALITY
In my work with CEOs, entrepreneurs, and executive leaders, I’ve found that one of the biggest challenges is carving out TIME FOR DEEP WORK ON BIG DREAMS amidst busy schedules. These leaders excel at getting things done, but creating transformational change and...
CUTTING THROUGH THE DISTRACTIONS
Hey there! If you’re reading this, it’s because you’re a go-getter—a leader striving for greatness. But let’s be real: distractions are everywhere, creeping into your day and stealing your focus. It’s frustrating, right? You want to cut through the noise and focus on...
ARE YOU READY TO RISE ABOVE THE SMALL STUFF AND LEAD WITH INTEGRITY?
In last week’s post, I talked about how leaders can lose focus on their big priorities, and this week I explored the importance of integrity in leadership. Today, I’m following up with practical tips to help you refocus on what really matters. 1. DELEGATE LARGER...
TRUE LEADERSHIP IS INTEGRITY EVEN WHEN NO ONE IS WATCHING
Sahith Theegala recently showed true leadership at the PGA Tour Championship. He self-reported a possible rule infraction. Despite the cameras finding no conclusive evidence, his honesty cost him $2.5 million due to a two-stroke penalty that knocked him from second to...
Ever feel like you’re drowning in the small stuff while the big picture slips away?
It’s a struggle every leader faces. We start with a vision, but soon the endless stream of tasks, emails, and meetings cloud our focus. But what if I told you that focusing on strategic priorities can boost your productivity by up to 50%? Research by the Center for...
LEADING WITH VISION
Did you know that 84% of executives say improving their ability to set and execute vision is a top priority? It’s no surprise—strong vision and strategy can be the difference between feeling stuck and unlocking breakthroughs. As Peter Drucker once said, “The best way...
UNLOCKING VISION & ACHIEVING BREAKTHROUGHS: A SUCCESS STORY
As a Success Coach… I have the privilege of working with high-achieving leaders who have found REMARKABLE BUSINESS SUCCESS, yet sometimes… feel a bit bogged down and stretched too thin. (Ever been there? Yeah, me too!) IDENTIFYING THE CHALLENGE Recently… I worked with...
NAVIGATING THE PATH TO OVERCOMING BURNOUT: STRATEGIES & INSIGHTS
Have you ever achieved great success but lately have felt completely burnt out? That no matter what you tried, you kept falling further behind and feeling more drained? COPING WITH BURNOUT Though books and strategies on burnout are valuable, EVERYONE...
RISE ABOVE THE MINUTIAE
At Elite CEO Advisors, we help exceptional leaders RISE ABOVE the minutiae, CUT THROUGH the distractions, REFOCUS on strategic goals, REIGNITE their passion, and MOVE FORWARD with renewed clarity and...
